John Madison Perry III, a cherished father, son, brother, and friend, passed away on January 12, 2021, in Denver, Colorado, following injuries from a skiing accident. His unexpected departure has left a void in the lives of many who knew and loved him. John Perry, born on September 24, 1971, in Berlin, Vermont, to Joan (Pirie) and John ‘Jack’ M. Perry, JR, lived a life full of passion, adventure, and deep connections.
Early Life and Education of John Perry
Growing up in Barre, Vermont, John Perry enjoyed a quintessential New England childhood, surrounded by a close-knit community of family and friends. He was known for his independent spirit, arriving nearly three weeks late into the world, much to the amusement (and slight impatience) of his family. He received his early education at Spaulding High School before pursuing higher studies at the University of Vermont, laying the foundation for a successful and fulfilling life.
Career and Denver Life of John Perry
In 1995, John Perry embarked on a new chapter, relocating to Denver, Colorado, to build his career in the financial services industry. Denver perfectly suited John’s adventurous spirit and love for the outdoors. He often remarked that the city offered the ideal balance – a place where he could enjoy a round of golf one day and hit the ski slopes the next. The presence of Denver’s four major sports teams was another significant draw for this avid sports enthusiast. Denver became more than just a location; it was where John Perry built a vibrant life, surrounded by a close-knit group of lifelong friends who shared countless adventures and travels, including a memorable trip to Capri, Italy, for his wedding in 2003. He took pride in being a magnet, drawing many of his Vermont friends to Colorado and considering himself the inspiration behind their moves.
Passions and Hobbies of John Perry
John Perry was an enthusiastic sports fan and participant. He passionately supported the Colorado Avalanche and the Boston Red Sox, navigating a good-natured split loyalty between the New England Patriots and the Denver Broncos. His love for sports extended beyond spectating; he actively engaged in golf, road cycling, mountain biking, hiking, hunting, fly fishing, and skiing. Recently, John Perry traveled to London with friends to witness the Red Sox play against the Yankees at Wembley Stadium, extending his trip to include a solo visit to Scotland, showcasing his love for travel and new experiences. Music, particularly his favorite Vermont band Phish, was another passion, leading to frequent concert trips with friends.
Devoted Father: John Perry’s Greatest Role
Above all his accomplishments, John Perry’s most cherished role was as a devoted father to his two children, Fletcher Frederick Perry (15) and Fiona Capri Perry (12). His kindness, humor, and adventurous spirit shaped their lives, creating unforgettable experiences. Annual trips to Kennebunkport, Maine, Lake George, NY, Raleigh, NC, and Vermont became treasured traditions. They were eagerly planning a special trip to Paris or Japan to celebrate his upcoming 50th birthday. John Perry had a knack for cooking and was proud of his ability to please even the pickiest eaters. He shared his love for the outdoors with his children, skiing, cycling, and hiking with them, and recently took on the task of teaching Fletcher to drive. Their Australian cattle dog, ‘Blue,’ was another beloved member of their family.
Family and Legacy of John Perry
John Perry is survived by his children, Fletcher and Fiona, and their mother, Molly Melanson Perry, and her husband, Lindsay Whetton. He is also survived by his parents, Joan and Jay Trombley, and Jack and Faith Perry; his sisters, Kimberley Kellam and Rebecca O’Connor, and their families; his nieces and nephews, Kyle and Madison Hicks, and Erica and Liam O’Connor; and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. John Perry now joins his niece, Shannon O’Connor, his great-grandmother, Mildred ‘Gram’ Holden, and his beloved black lab ‘Rory,’ in peace.
In the wake of this profound loss, John Perry’s family finds solace in the memories and the unique perspective he brought to life. He often mused with his children about life’s mysteries, suggesting that the greatest unknown was what lies beyond this earthly existence. In that spirit, Fiona and Fletcher imagine their father smiling, now knowing answers that remain mysteries to those of us still here.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to local animal shelters in John Perry’s honor. Contributions to Fletcher and Fiona’s college funds can be made via Ugift529.com using codes X3J-L8Y and M3G-H4Y, respectively. A celebration of John Perry’s life is planned for early Fall 2021.
