John Doyle, a resident of North Bellmore, New York, passed away at the age of 50 on June 4th, 2020, leaving behind a legacy as impactful as the waves he chased. For those who knew John, it was clear he lived life to the fullest, packing more into his fifty years than many could dream of. While known for his bravery and service in other fields, it was the ocean and the thrill of surfing that truly defined his spirit.
Born in Brooklyn, NY, and later moving to Stroudsburg, PA, John’s early life fostered a deep connection with the outdoors. Growing up amidst cousins and friends, he developed a love for exploration and physical challenges. While the Poconos woods were his initial playground, it was the call of the ocean that would eventually capture his heart. His early passion for sports, including football, kickboxing, and boxing, laid the foundation for the strength and agility he would later bring to the waves.
Driven by a desire to serve, John initially pursued a career with the prestigious NYPD, achieving his goal and dedicating twenty years to protecting New York City. He served in demanding roles, including the Street Crimes unit and the Emergency Service Unit (ESU), rising to the rank of Sergeant. His commitment extended to the aftermath of 9/11, where he spent months at Ground Zero, aiding in the city’s recovery. His physical prowess was further showcased as a member of the NYPD Boxing Team, competing in matches globally, including the Golden Gloves. Even after retirement, his dedication continued as a volunteer coach for the team.
However, beyond his commendable service, John’s adventurous soul yearned for the freedom of the ocean. He found solace and exhilaration in surfing, embracing the challenges and rewards it offered. His free time was dedicated to pursuing adrenaline-pumping activities, and surfing became a central passion. Whether it was exploring exotic scuba diving locations or conquering treacherous mountain biking trails, John sought experiences that pushed his limits. The Long Beach polar plunge was just another testament to his fearless nature and love for the water. Cross-fit training kept him in peak condition, ensuring he was always ready to tackle the next big wave.
The most transformative wave in John’s life arrived with fatherhood. His children, Ronan (age 5) and Kennedy (age 3), became his greatest joy. He shared his love for nature with them, exploring nature preserves and parks, introducing Ronan to the joys of fishing, and instilling in Kennedy the belief that she could achieve anything, even “boy things,” if she set her mind to it. He prioritized their education, spending hours reading to them daily, building a strong foundation for their future. His aspirations were solely focused on their well-being and happiness.
Those who knew John will always remember his infectious smile and dry wit. Beneath his tough exterior lay a deeply sensitive and emotional man, quick to show his love and care. It is this combination of strength and tenderness that defines his true character.
John is survived by his loving wife Christine (Ritchie) and his children Ronan and Kennedy, along with his brother Ray McLaughlin and Kathleen Wilder. He is also remembered by his sister-in-laws Moira Ritchie, Jeanie Fulmer, Laura McLaughlin, and brother-in-law Charlie Ritchie, as well as nieces and nephews Dylan McLaughlin, Meghan McLaughlin, Sara Wilder, Anne Wilder, Charley DeMarcus, Mason Fulmer, Maddox Fulmer, Aiden Clark, and Grady Clark. His mother-in-law Kathleen Ritchie also survives him, and he was predeceased by his parents, Walter and Kathleen. John leaves behind a vast network of loved ones, including numerous cousins such as Thomas Doyle, Lauri Doyle, Tracey Doyle Murphy, Debra Doyle Scott, Jimmy Doyle, Dennis Doyle, Martin Doyle, Kathy Caputo, and many more. He is also survived by his “brothers” who shared deep bonds of friendship, including Jerry Arico, Jr., Brian Daly, Brian Distasi, Adam Perry, Rob Miller, Brett Youngkin, Mark Overcash, Sean McCarthy, Ray Daly, Steve Scialpi, Freddie Liberatore, Billy Wen, Doug Walden, Tom Glaudino, and countless others.
In this time of sorrow, let us remember the moments of laughter and joy John brought into our lives. May these positive memories bring comfort and smiles amidst the sadness.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the college funds of John’s children would be a meaningful tribute. Contributions can be made via Ugift529.com using the codes H7J-M1J for Ronan and K6Q-L33 for Kennedy.
Visitors are welcome on Wednesday, June 17th, from 2-4 pm and 7-9 pm at Arthur F. White Funeral Home, Inc., 315 Conklin Street, Farmingdale. A Funeral Mass will be held on Thursday, June 18th, at 11:15 am at St. Kilian RC Church, followed by a private cremation.
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